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Feeling a little fluffy after all the holiday treats? Feeling a little fluffy just because after 40 everything relaxes a bit? Sometimes, fighting to lose those last 10 pounds is just not worth the effort. Now, I am not encouraging people to be unhealthy, but I am encouraging us all to take a realistic view of our situation.
Nothing brings more attention to your extra pounds than wearingclothes that are too tight. The law of nature naturally draws our eye to where clothing is pulling and swelling.
On the other end of the spectrum, some people want to look larger or taller. Others want to camouflage a short neck or short legs. Whether you want to camouflage the 5-10 extra pounds, or simply want to make the most of your inherited body shape (which will never change no matter how many diets you endure), knowledge is power! It doesn't cost any extra money to select the right clothes for your body. In fact, it costs less. Follow these tips and you will be able to select clothing that will make you look and feel great!
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by Janae St. John
Misrepresentation is a contract law concept. It means a false statement of fact made by one party to another party, which has the effect of inducing that party into the contract. For example, under certain circumstances, false statements or promises made by a seller of goods regarding the quality or nature of the product that the seller has may constitute misrepresentation.
Alright, it's a bit dramatic and ooooh so serious sounding. But, it remains that when you say you are one way, look a way, or have a certain marital status you are supposed to telling the whole truth. Otherwise, you are committing a MISREPRESENTATION of yourself. Who could trust you from that point forward?
On your personal appearance:
Perhaps that's the test. If you meet someone you convinced that you were a 180 pound Adonis who has never been married or recently widowed; and upon seeing you for the first time realized you have a Dunlap muffin top belly, memories of hair on the sides of your temples and are still wearing a wedding ring - yet they don't head for the door - you may have met your match!
That's not me; don't even think of trying that. I'll head for the door, let you know you've wasted my time, were deceitful and need to get a grasp on reality. Of course we all share the best photos of ourselves. But, how about a photo of yourself from THIS year - ideally in the past six months?
I went out with a man once. Never knew he wore a toupee. I was young, naive and thought it was fun to go out with my dentist - wrong on so many levels. We had a wonderful dinner at a local upscale steak house and went back to his place. We were visiting in his living room when the glue started to drip by the side of his ear. He must have been nervous as I was asking him about his family - or perhaps when I was telling him about mine. Noticing his "discomfort" and sweating, I simply asked him, "why?" He had beautiful eyes, gorgeous smile (of course) and didn't need fake hair. We didn't date again, primarily because I couldn't get over the smell of mouthwash whenever I was near him. But, he did change something after that date; he dumped the toupee and shaved his head. He looked so much better and he held himself straighter with more confidence. I feel that I helped in some small way. We are still friends.
On marital status:
Do you know the definition of widowed? How about divorced vs. separated? The phrase, "it's complicated" does not substitute. Call your status for what it is; you will save everyone’s time. We won't like you more after meeting you when you finally reveal that you are only separated and there is a nasty custody battle. Do you think the memory of the person we thought we'd be meeting will cloud our judgment so much that we'll look deep into your eyes and say it doesn't matter and that we understand, you poor baby...? Tell me you don't believe this. Stop reading, I can't help you.
You can't be divorced and widowed from the same person. If you are divorced and they die, then the person you WERE married to died. Just that simple.
On demographics:
Where do you live? You don't have to give the address. If you are working for the FBI or in Witness Protection, you may have an excuse. Then, too, you shouldn't be looking for love through conventional means because you are destined for dishonesty. If you are embarrassed about where you live, you can either get over it and get comfortable with your situation, or come up with a plan to change it. Share the plan - at least you have a plan and are not lying.
I thank my friend, Kay Hunter for inviting me to contribute to her blog.
Posted at 12:29 PM in Blunders, Dating, Personal Image | Permalink | Comments (0)
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by Janae St. John
I realize as we get older and find ourselves back out there dating that we will have some baggage. Unless you are Sleeping Beauty, you aren't single because you are totally innocent, without a history, some bumps, possibly quirks and emotional bruises. But, make sure you ready to date? Dating involves a bit of trust, lightness and MANNERS.
A very odd date happened to me recently. I understand through well-meaning friend’s attempts at setting us up on blind dates and online dating services, we are all a bit cautious – as we should be. Although, when your ice-breaker questions include - no joke:
"May I see your driver's license?"
(We were in a public restaurant - he asked this to confirm my age!)
"What is your credit score?"
"How do you look with no makeup in the morning?"
These were just the openers. I was so distracted looking for the door throughout the rest of the paranoid inquisition that I can't remember the rest of the inappropriate questions that he asked. Of course, we all want to know the other person’s sorted details, but it seems some of that information needs to come out as when a relationship evolves. Perhaps it's my own fault for taking care of meself, having a current sense of style and good oral care that would make someone wonder how old I am and if I'm "all real." I'm not sure.
From a female perspective, these are questions I would welcome:
These are good questions because they give more you information than the questions present.
There is no wrong answer, but their answers will help you see if there is a match. If you are a sports TV nut, then someone who would prefer to catch a game, even when it's sunny out may be a good match for you. If you don't enjoy reading, someone who says they only read business books or magazines may be a good match for you. It all depends on where you are heading, where you want to land.
Posted at 11:59 AM in Dating, Etiquette Blunders | Permalink | Comments (0)
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How Should You Dress for a 1st Date?
Talk about making a 1st impression, this is the king of occasions. The other person is evaluating everything and diagnosing if that sought after “chemistry” exists. The first factor being evaluated is - how you look. After the 1st impression, their personality, ability to connect with you, compatibility, and similar goals and values will all come into play.
Let’s start with the easiest part of the first impression, how you dress. This is the easiest because it can be adjusted and modified so instantly. This is much easier to adjust than a boring personality! Let me just say, “I have seen it all!” From men showing up in cut-off blue jean shorts with a white “wife beater” tank top for his shirt, to men so buttoned up they appeared stiff as a board. Ladies commit the same crimes, usually associated with showing off way too much “of their goods”, or not playing fair and not letting the man see a glimpse of what they look like.
First date attire should be selected based on where you are going and what you are doing. If you are simply meeting for coffee, jeans and a nice shirt/top are just fine. If you are going to dinner, this is the time to step up your selection and dress up more to show you value the time he/she is investing. Second, select styles that flatter your particular body type. Second, the clothing should show off your physique/figure without looking desperate (i.e. even if you have the best biceps in town, no tank tops!). Third, your ensemble should reflect your personal style. If you are very traditional, that should come across. If you are very creative, this is not the time to try to look more conservative. We want to make it easy for the other person to get to know us, and our clothing choices can assist with this goal! Finally, be well groomed. This may be your only chance to make that 1st impression. I met a guy who said, “Oh if I knew I was meeting you I would have had my hair cut, it is way over do”. Well, he knew he was meeting me (he did set up the date), and I couldn’t be attracted to the 80’s look.
You are ready! Take a deep breathe, arrive on time, and enjoy the journey!
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Dating can be great and dating can be awful! Finding the “right” partner can be like finding a needle in the haystack – but worth the search. If men and women would follow the golden rule of “do unto others as you want them to do unto you”, everyone would be much better off. Since this is not always the case, follow these tips to make your dates are as successful as possible.
Dating is simple, it is about two people coming together to get to know one another and find out whether they are compatible and have chemistry.
When in doubt about what to do, read the guidelines below – more will follow next week. Reverse rolls in your mind to see how it would feel to be on the receiving end of some of the more insensitive behavior explained below. These tips are for both men and women. When both sexes are skilled at dating and social etiquette, everyone has a much better time!
More to come, stay tuned . . .
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I feel blessed to work with so many great clients and friends. Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to assist you with your wardrobe and corporate training needs. I appreciate all the notes you write throughout the year with your success stories. I wish each and every one of you a very special holiday season, filled with happiness and great health.
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Over the next 30 days you will most likely go to more social events than you do in the other eleven months of the year. If you are like most people, you find yourself stewing over what to wear and how to act. There can be so much confusion over dress code definitions (i.e. "Business Social") to the right thing to do when it comes to gift buying - for everything from gifts for your boss to hostess gift dilemmas. Whether your event is business or personal, follow these tips to ensure your holidays are stress and faux pas free. Enjoy the season!
Continue reading "Holidy Party Etiquette: Do's and Don'ts to Make You Shine This Season" »
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There are a few items that would be handy to have at home for "dash out the door" emergencies, last minute meetings, or social events. I recommend keeping them all in one bag or drawer so you are not frantically searching for them, causing you to break into a sweat, rip something more – making you start all over! Some of these items should be kept in your glove compartment and women - have them in your evening bag, if you can without making it look chunky and bulky.
Double-stick (Hollywood fashion tape) is good for those well-endowed at the chest, or a little reinforcement for those places the holiday pounds might settle. It is also good for hems that needs to be stitched but you didn't notice till you were out the door. The clear tape doesn’t t cover up the skin’s natural color and is more discreet and fabric-friendly than safety pins. Safety pins are also handy for these purposes - but the Hollywood Fashion Tape is more discreet.
Tide-To-Go eraser pen is great for getting little spills out fast, such as the wine spill that inevitably happens when you are wearing light colors!
Lint roller for the pet hair that has migrated into the front seat of your car and stick to your rear end, or the white napkin lint from the restaurant napkin or tissue fuzz.
Handkerchief is handier for quick touch up wipes than tissue - no fuzz left on your face or clothes.
Gal pal sponges for removing those white deodorant marks or general dirt that often gets us when we brush up against our car.
Cuticle oil or cream for the dry cuticles that the cooler weather causes. Another alternative is the anti-aging and eye creams that are given as gifts with most cosmetic purchases. Clinique even gives it with the men's shaving gift packs - VERY handy for winter hands and cuticles.
Ballet slippers for those aching feet from your high heels. Dr. Schools is selling portable shoes, but you can get a thin pair of ballet slippers anywhere. This option is far better than walking around a party with your shoes off! You can choose from a few well-known shoe sites: ShoeBuy, Zappos, Nordstrom, Capezio.
Tweezers - men this includes you as well. Sometimes you catch a glimpse of yourself in the rearview mirror or feel that tickle. Having a pair of tweezers in the glove compartment helps you get that stray Yoda hair from your ears or nose or the one eyebrow hair getting tangled in your eyelashes. Women, you know what I'm talking about with the stray chin or upper lip hair that eluded waxing or plucking earlier in the day. Keep them tucked in the car or home. This is not a "do in public" type of thing. No need to stash the tweezers in your purse.
Breath mints, breathstrips especially after a long stressful day. A glass of water can get rid of the dry mouth and the breath mints and breath strips can freshen up your mouth - assuming you are brushing and using mouthwash before you ever leave your house. This is just for "touch up."
Spare pair of hose for evening events. Sometimes you can't stop by to pick them up if you arrive at an event and then there it is - a run from here until Tuesday. Clear nail polish still can stop it, but if it's too late and you need to replace them, have a pair handy in your most common colors - nude and black. No need to ruin the entire look of your outfit because of a snaggy mishap.
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With the cooler weather come dry nails. My nails were splitting, peeling, and the cuticles were dry. I started using AVOPLEX nail and cuticle replenishing oil by OPI twice daily, and my nails became strong and my cuticles soft in two weeks.
Great for men and women. I purchased my bottle at a beauty supply store for $12.
Another tip I learned from a friend is to use those small "anti-aging" creams that come with most cosmetic "gift packages." Many of you have those around not wanting to throw them away, but not having enough dark circles and crows feet to use them up. This is the perfect solution, and they drop nicly into your purse or keep in your glove box in the car.
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Fall is officially here and Winter is on its way. This means cooler days ahead. With so many of us dressing "business casual", sweaters and cardigans are a great substitute for the structured jacket. Or, they are a great layering piece underneath a jacket. A cashmere sweater is a great investment. Not only are they stylish and beautiful, but they are temperature adaptable. This means they keep you warm in the Fall and Winter and can keep you cool when the temperature gets a bit warmer. For those of us allergic to fibrous wools, cashmere typically does not produce the same reaction. Cashmere is considered one of the finest of all natural fabrics. Since a cashmere sweater can be expensive, it is important to understand how to select cashmere of the best quality for your money and how to care and store your pieces.
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